How to create visibility and trust without posting on social media
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Recently, I’ve had a few messages from people saying something along the lines of:
“I know I should build my personal brand… but I really don’t want to post on LinkedIn.”
And honestly, I get it.
As an introvert, the idea also felt deeply uncomfortable for me. It can feel exposing, quite cringe, and like you’re opening yourself up to judgement.
But what I always want to tell people is this: Personal brand is much bigger than creating content. At its core, it’s about what people associate with you. How you make them feel. What you’re known for.
Essentially what people say about you when you’re not in the room. And actually, you can build all of that without ever posting on social media.
Here’s how:
1. Network in real life
Online visibility really isn’t the only kind that matters. Showing up in real life spaces, industry events, dinners, meet-ups, and conferences, builds trust quickly.
I say this as someone who is not big on IRL networking: being present really does put you on people’s radar in a way that content sometimes can’t.
A short conversation can do more than a month of posting. Your brand grows simply by consistently being in the right rooms.
2. Be a strong contributor
You don’t need a public platform to be visible. You can contribute in founder groups, professional communities, or private networks, and often have even more impact.
Being the person who answers questions, shares insights, or offers different perspectives, builds credibility over time.
People notice when someone is generous with their knowledge, and it definitely helps build your brand in the background.
3. Reach out one-to-one
Some of the most meaningful opportunities I’ve had came from direct conversation: sending a thoughtful message. Offering a coffee chat. Congratulating someone or offering some encouragement.
It doesn’t need to be transactional. It’s just about connecting with people you respect, or whose work resonates with you.
Being proactive and curious is memorable and makes others feel good.
4. Be a nice person!
It sounds so simple, but it’s highly underrated. People remember good humans.
Making introductions, offering support, giving time, sharing advice, being someone who lifts others up. It all counts.
One thing I’ve noticed is that kindness travels faster than content. And having a reputation for integrity is one of the strongest personal brands you can have.
5. Become excellent at something
If you want a brand without posting online, getting deep on one thing is a great strategy. Because being truly good at what you do makes you referable.
The strongest brands are often the most trusted: when people know exactly what you’re great at, they think of you when opportunities appear. And it’s that competence at whatever it is, that makes you visible.
6. Be consistent in how you show up
Ultimately, personal brand is built through consistency. Not just in terms of output, but in character: how you communicate. How you follow through. How you treat people. What you stand for.
Over time, people see the pattern and begin to associate you with these things.
The takeaway
Posting on LinkedIn is one element that helps to build a personal brand, but it’s not the only one. At its core, brand is trust. And trust is built through relationships, contribution, and consistency.
Whether or not you’re active on LinkedIn or other social media, you can still build a reputation that creates great opportunity.
Speak soon,
Dupé
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